Safety Guidelines
Your safety and well-being are our top priority
WannaDate? is a social dating connection platform only. We do not provide or permit escorting, prostitution, or sexual services. We facilitate introductions and messaging, but off-platform communication, meetings, and payments are solely between users. We do not guarantee that any date will occur or go as expected, and we are not responsible for off-platform conduct. The platform is provided "as-is" without warranties. Users are solely responsible for their content and interactions. WannaDate? is a platform, not a publisher—we facilitate connections but do not create, edit, or control user-generated content.
- •Content moderation: We enforce our Community Guidelines and review reported content
- •Report & block tools: You can report or block any user who makes you uncomfortable
- •Email verification: We verify email addresses to reduce fake accounts
- •Reviews & ratings: Completed dates can be rated so you can see how others experienced that user
- •Account enforcement: We investigate reports and may warn, suspend, or permanently ban users who violate our terms
Chat First
Have meaningful conversations before meeting. Get to know the person's interests, goals, and communication style.
Verify Identity
Verify their profile information and ask for additional verification if needed. Look for completed dates and positive reviews.
Video Chat First (When Possible)
A quick video call before meeting in person can help you confirm who they are and feel more comfortable. WannaDate does not offer video calling—any video chat happens off-platform and is solely between users. If you choose to video chat, use a link-based service (e.g., Zoom, Google Meet) that does not require exchanging phone numbers. We do not recommend sharing personal contact information on the platform and are not responsible for off-platform communication.
Keep Social and Dating Separate
Avoid using the same photos from your social media on your dating profile, and don't link your dating profile to your social accounts. Keeping them separate helps protect your privacy and reduces the risk of unwanted contact.
Discuss arrangements upfront
Clearly discuss and agree on how you'll arrange the details and expectations before the date. Be transparent about expectations.
Share Your Plans
Tell a trusted friend or family member where you're going, who you're meeting, and when you expect to return.
Use "Share Location" Feature
Consider sharing your live location with a friend using your phone's built-in location sharing features.
✓ Recommended First Date Locations:
- •Coffee shops or cafes (public, well-lit, lots of people)
- •Restaurants (public dining areas, not private rooms)
- •Parks or public spaces (during daylight hours)
- •Museums or cultural events (public settings)
Use a method you both agree on
Choose a method you're comfortable with. Avoid wire transfers or unusual requests.
Set Clear Boundaries
Discuss payment expectations before the date. Never pay in advance for future dates.
Watch for Red Flags
Be cautious of users requesting large amounts upfront, gift cards, or unusual arrangements.
Learn more about romance scams: FTC Romance Scams
✓ Do
- • Trust your instincts
- • Keep your phone charged and accessible
- • Have your own transportation and always carry cash or a card to get home
- • Stay in public areas
- • Let someone know your location
- • Set boundaries and communicate clearly
- • Limit alcohol so you can stay alert and make clear decisions
Drink safety:
- • Cover your drink with a napkin when you step away
- • If something seems off about your drink, ask for a new one and do not finish the original
✗ Don't
- • Ignore red flags or pressure
- • Share personal financial information
- • Feel obligated to continue if uncomfortable
- • Leave your drink unattended
- • Go to private residences on first dates
- • Send money before meeting
- • Drink too much—stay sober enough to stay safe
Behavioral Red Flags:
- •Aggressive or threatening language
- •Pressuring you to meet quickly
- •Refusing to share basic information
- •Asking for money or personal details
- •Disrespectful or inappropriate comments
Profile Red Flags:
- •Blurry or suspicious profile photos
- •Incomplete or unrealistic profile
- •Very few or no completed dates
- •Negative or concerning reviews
- •Impersonating someone else
Immediate Actions:
- 1.Trust your instincts and leave immediately if you feel unsafe
- 2.Call 911 for emergencies or local authorities
- 3.If you are threatened or have been harmed, contact law enforcement right away, then report the incident through our platform so we can take action
- 4.Contact local victim support services if needed
📞 Emergency Services
Call 911 for immediate help
🛡️ Report on Platform
Use the report button on profiles to report safety concerns
📱 National Human Trafficking Hotline
Call (888) 373-7888 or text BEFREE (233733)
Your safety is our priority. If you have any concerns or questions, please don't hesitate to contact us.